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Updating via texlive manager (option -gui available)
tlmgr
my personal notepad - for all the things I used to write on pieces of paper ( which where never seen again esp. when I needed them ) ...
tlmgr
/usr/share/texmf-texlive/tex/latex/the path can differ from the path above (e.g. if you use TeTeX).
cp /home/me/pathtopackage/example.sty /usr/share/texmf-texlive/tex/latex/
sudo mktexlsradd the line \usepackage{example} to you document